Welcome to Holland at Christmas

Christmas can look very different when you’re parenting an autistic child. In today’s episode, we read and reflect on the poem Welcome to Holland and talk honestly about what it means to grieve the holiday you expected while learning to embrace the one you have. We explore how autism can reshape traditions, expectations, and even joy during the holidays—and why it’s okay to hold both grief and gratitude at the same time. If today feels quieter, harder, or nothing like you imagined, this conversation is for you. You are not failing, and you are not alone.

IMPORTANT:We want to take a moment to share an urgent need within the autism community. Lindy Davies is trying to find a kidney donor for her husband, Thomas. They have two sons, including an 8-year-old with Level 3 autism. As Lindy shared, “I cannot do this alone. I need him, Brandon needs him, but most importantly Grayson needs him.” Please consider visiting her Instagram to learn how you can help or share her story. Here is the link: https://www.instagram.com/lindy_davies?igsh=MTRjMml3OGVxdG94aw==