First 90 days
Your child is 3 or older
The school district is your primary lever. A written request for evaluation starts a federal 60-day clock — don't wait for them to come to you.
Last verified: May 2026
The 30-second version
- Send a written request to your school district for a special education evaluation — this starts a federal clock.
- Get on the Medicaid waiver waitlist now — lists run 3–10 years.
- You can bring a support person or advocate to any IEP meeting.
- FAPE and LRE are federal rights that always apply.
The Medicaid waiver waitlist
Most states have Medicaid waiver programs that fund therapy, respite, and support services for children with autism. Waitlists in most states run 3–10 years. Getting on the list in the first few months after diagnosis means services could be available years sooner. Find your state's waiver on your state page.
Your IEP rights
Under IDEA Part B, your child is entitled to a free appropriate public education (FAPE) in the least restrictive environment (LRE). The school must evaluate your child within 60 days of your written request. You are a full member of the IEP team — you can disagree, request changes, and bring an advocate to any meeting. Annual IEP reviews are the minimum; you can request a meeting at any time.
Insurance and therapy coverage
Most states now mandate that private health insurance cover ABA therapy, speech therapy, and occupational therapy for autism. Check your policy and your state's insurance mandate. If coverage is denied, your state's insurance commissioner can help with appeals.
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Who helps with this?
The law
Federal
IDEA Part B guarantees a free appropriate public education (FAPE) for children with disabilities ages 3–21. The school must respond to a written evaluation request within 60 days.
The system
Your state
Your state's Parent Training & Information Center (PTI) provides free advocacy support and knows your state's specific procedures.
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The people
Your area
Special education coordinators, independent educational advocates, and autism parent groups in your area can help you navigate the IEP process.
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